Cheater, cheater, Pumpkin eater..... okay not really.

I am writing today on a subject that has been bothering me for some time now.

It is cheating. It is about cheaters. Not the competetive cheating, I would give you an example but they have all fleeted from my damn Sugar infested memory (Did you hear sugar makes you stupider (HA! I said stupider!)? Ya, I believe it. Makes sense as to why everyone is stupid)

It is about when a couple marries and dedicates their life to one another and they cheat.

They are NO good down right dirty rotten cheatin liars!

I am SOOOO disgusted with the nonchalance (is that a word) that this has become.

I am so sick of all the bullshit "excuses" people make for being a cheater.  Did those selfish shits ever ONCE think if they put as much energy into the excuses/reasons as why NOT to cheat that they put into why they DESERVE to cheat that maybe,  just maybe they would have realized that they were about to do something completely shitty, selfish, and immoral? Do you think if it wasn't always about them and the "I want" or the "I need" that it would have NOT happened?

I am not saying that anyone ever needs to stay in an unhealthy, miserable, down right pathetic relationship. What I am saying is that there is..seperation, there is divorce.

Do NOT play your "happy in this relationship but I am really a complete attention whore so nothing is ever enough for me" bullshit!!!  

Do NOT make excuses for why you cheated on your spouse! They are pathetic, they will go right over my head and I will think no good of you. You see, it gives me a little glimpse into the type of person you REALLY are.

Do NOT think it makes you any more of a "man"/"woman" because you can now tell your story and have just a little bit of remorse but you still feel you were justified in your actions! You were NOT, nor will you ever be justified in those actions.

GROW UP!!!!!! Act like someone who is in a committed relationship. Act like it at all times, just not when it is beneficial to you!


Disclaimer: remember this is my blog. I don't write in it very often. I also think LONG and hard on what I want to write or how I want to write it. NOTHING in here is written "fly by the seat of my pants" like. It is MY thoughts. Thoughts that I think. Thoughts that have been eating away at me for some time. This is how I get them out of my head and away from me so I can continue to be as sane as humanly possible for a Lil Mama like me. =)